Why Parents are Embracing the Sober-Curious Movement
🎙️ Mindful Sobriety with Jane Ballard (stay tuned for more episodes with Amanda Cable coming soon!!)
Episode: Why Parents Are Embracing the Sober-Curious Movement
Host: Jane Ballard, LCSW-S, CEDS, PMH-C
In this solo episode, Jane shares her answers to questions from health journalist Melissa Daly for TheBump.com about why today’s parents—especially millennials and Gen Z—are drinking less and embracing the sober-curious lifestyle.
Jane explores how cultural shifts, mental health awareness, and the realities of parenting are influencing a generation to rethink alcohol. With warmth and clinical insight, she breaks down the science behind alcohol’s effects on stress, mood, and attachment—and why choosing to live alcohol-free may be one of the most powerful gifts you can give your children.
🌿 Key Topics
- Why “mommy-wine culture” is losing its appeal
- How alcohol affects attachment and emotional presence in parenting
- The physiological and emotional cost of alcohol on stress, mood, and sleep
- The rise of alternative connection and wellness practices (like breathwork and sound healing)
- Practical strategies for decompressing without alcohol
- What it really means to parent with presence, patience, and self-compassion
🧠Jane’s Clinical Insights
- Alcohol is a Group 1 carcinogen (in the same category as tobacco and asbestos). There is no safe level of alcohol consumption.
- For parents, alcohol dulls emotional attunement—making it harder to be responsive, accessible, and engaged (R.A.R.E.), the foundation of secure attachment.
- Choosing to reduce or eliminate alcohol supports emotional regulation, nervous system balance, and deeper connection with your children.
💡 In This Episode, You’ll Learn
- Why the sober-curious movement is more than a trend—it’s a cultural shift toward health, connection, and clarity.
- How to find your community of alcohol-free or sober-curious parents online and in person.
- Simple ways to decompress in the moment (breathing, movement, fresh air, rest).
- How to recognize and respond to intrusive thoughts and other perinatal mental health challenges.
đź“š Mentioned Resources & Recommendations
Quit-Lit (Books for the Sober-Curious)
- We Are the Luckiest by Laura McKowen
- Push Off from Here by Laura McKowen
- Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker
- This Naked Mind by Annie Grace
Wellness Practices Jane Mentions
- Sound Healing & Breathwork: Look for local events or facilitators in your city (try searching “sound healing + [your city]” on Instagram)
- Insight Timer App: Free meditations and guided breathwork (Jane mentions Taylor Somerville’s work, praised by Elizabeth Gilbert)
🌍 Global Perinatal Mental Health Resources
No matter where you are, support is available. Below are trusted organizations offering help for postpartum anxiety, depression, and intrusive thoughts:
United States
- Postpartum Support International (PSI) — Free helpline: 1-800-944-4773 (text “HELP” to 800-944-4773)
Canada
- Postpartum Support Canada — Directory of mental health professionals across provinces
United Kingdom
- PANDAS Foundation — Free helpline and peer support for perinatal mood disorders
- Mind – Perinatal Mental Health — Information and support options for pregnancy and postpartum
Australia & New Zealand
- PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia) — Helpline: 1300 726 306
- Mothers Helpers NZ — Postnatal depression programs and online support
India & South Asia
- Postpartum Support Network India — Education and local counselor directory
- The Mindful Life Practice — Yoga and mindfulness programs for alcohol-free women (founded by Alexandra McRobert)
Global & Online
- Postpartum Support International Global Directory — Find certified perinatal mental health providers worldwide
- Maternal Mental Health Alliance — International nonprofit advancing maternal mental health awareness and policy
🕊️ Closing Message
“Being alcohol-free isn’t deprivation—it’s liberation. It’s the freedom to show up calm, consistent, and emotionally present for yourself and your family.” — Jane Ballard
đź”— Connect with Jane
- Instagram: @janewballard
- Website: janewballard.com
- Email: jane@janewballard.com
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Creators and Guests
Host
Jane W Ballard
Jane Ballard, LCSW-S, CEDS, PMH-C, is a licensed psychotherapist and Alcohol Free Life coach. She is the founder of Jane Ballard Wellness, a private practice offering in-person counseling services in Dallas, TX and virtual individual and group coaching to women in the United States and beyond. After waking up to the realization that alcohol was a barrier to living her purpose, she set out to make information, support and connection more accessible to like minded women.