
56. From Boss Lady Wine to Boss Lady Zero Proof
In this conversation, Jane sits down with Natalie Fannin, AKA Boss Lady Zero Proof on Instagram. Natalie shares her journey of becoming alcohol-free after years of navigating the complexities of drinking culture, particularly as a professional woman. She discusses her upbringing in a non-drinking household, the gradual shift to alcohol consumption in her adult life, and the impact of 'mommy wine culture.' Natalie emphasizes the importance of mindset, motivation, and mentorship in her sobriety journey, highlighting the supportive community she found along the way. She also expresses her aspirations to inspire others through motivational speaking and coaching. In this conversation, Natalie shares her journey of sobriety, emphasizing the importance of mindset and support from friends and family. She discusses the joy and clarity that come from living alcohol-free, the role of personality types in understanding one's relationship with alcohol, and the new opportunities that arise when one chooses to quit drinking. The conversation also touches on health risks associated with alcohol, creative alternatives to drinking, and the sense of community that develops among those on a similar journey. Ultimately, Natalie encourages listeners to embrace the temporary challenges of sobriety and to explore the beautiful life that awaits them.
TAKEAWAYS
- Natalie has been alcohol-free for over two years and is proud of her journey.
- She emphasizes that quitting drinking doesn't require hitting rock bottom.
- The Enneagram has become a significant part of her personal and professional life.
- Natalie started drinking at 26, influenced by her corporate environment.
- She experienced a shift from a non-drinking upbringing to embracing 'mommy wine culture.'
- Moderation proved to be a challenging and unsustainable approach for her.
- Mindset, motivation, and mentorship are crucial for anyone seeking sobriety.
- Building a supportive community has been vital in her alcohol-free journey.
- Natalie aims to inspire others through motivational speaking and coaching.
- She encourages others to find their own path to sobriety without judgment. Mindset is crucial for a successful sobriety journey.
- Support from friends and family can make a significant difference.
- Quitting alcohol can lead to a more vibrant and fulfilling life.
- Understanding personality types can help navigate sobriety challenges.
- Sobriety opens up new opportunities and experiences.
- Health risks associated with alcohol consumption are often overlooked.
- Creative alternatives to alcohol can enhance social experiences.
- Sobriety can lead to a ripple effect of positive changes in life.
- Community and connection are vital in the sobriety journey.
- Embracing the temporary nature of challenges can lead to growth.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Natalie’s Journey
Introduction to Natalie’s Journey
03:47
Early Life and Alcohol's Absence
Early Life and Alcohol's Absence
08:09
The Shift to Drinking
The Shift to Drinking
11:44
Mommy Wine Culture and Its Impact
Mommy Wine Culture and Its Impact
15:34
The Struggle with Moderation
The Struggle with Moderation
19:08
Mindset, Motivation, and Mentorship in Sobriety
Mindset, Motivation, and Mentorship in Sobriety
22:59
Building a Sober Community
Building a Sober Community
25:16
Mindset and Support in Sobriety
Mindset and Support in Sobriety
26:19
The Journey of Quitting Alcohol
The Journey of Quitting Alcohol
28:33
Finding Joy in Sober Living
Finding Joy in Sober Living
30:44
Understanding Personality Types and Sobriety
Understanding Personality Types and Sobriety
32:36
New Opportunities in an Alcohol-Free Life
New Opportunities in an Alcohol-Free Life
35:17
Health Risks and Alcohol Awareness
Health Risks and Alcohol Awareness
36:57
Creative Alternatives to Alcohol
Creative Alternatives to Alcohol
38:48
The Ripple Effect of Sobriety
The Ripple Effect of Sobriety
41:27
Community and Connection in Sobriety
Connect with Natalie on Instagram @bossladyzeroproof where you can learn more about her monthly women's groups and her inspiring alcohol free journey!
Links to Resources Mentioned
The Year of Less by Cait Flanders
Community and Connection in Sobriety
Connect with Natalie on Instagram @bossladyzeroproof where you can learn more about her monthly women's groups and her inspiring alcohol free journey!
Links to Resources Mentioned
The Year of Less by Cait Flanders
This Side of Alcohol by Peggy Cooney
When Facing Temptation, Are You an All-Or-Nothing Person? | Gretchen Rubin
The Enneagram Institute
When Facing Temptation, Are You an All-Or-Nothing Person? | Gretchen Rubin
The Enneagram Institute
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Guest
Natalie Fannin
Natalie is a motivational speaker and mindset coach. She is enneagram personality certified and helps women achieve their goals! Natalie has been published in several magazines. She is cofounder of the growing community of Sassy Sober Living and hosts authors and guest speakers at live monthly virtual events. Natalie has been married for 16 years and is a proud StepMom to 3. She and her husband are empty nesters and live in Atlanta GA. Natalie works in pharmaceutical sales full time. They love to travel, golf, and watch college football.